Level i. Belonging
A 9 week Immersive Deep Dive to fall deeply in love with your own belonging. Explore your body, your senses, and the truest expression of you.
map your Eros from root to crown
You are powerful mama - a creator and a true force to be reckoned with. You know this. Plus, you are hungry for more. More than what society has deemed acceptable for you. More than what your lineage’s ceiling of limitation tells you is possible. You are fiercely devoted to yourself and the path that you are on. You’ve been walking on the edge for some time, preparing to dive. Ready to let go even deeper into your Erotic Aliveness, into your felt experience, and into the tools that will take you where you most desire to be. It’s time to let go of the programs that are standing in your way. The truth is, your erotic aliveness is the center for all things carrying you forward - you feel in your gut that it’s time to do the unseen work. To let go of the dis-resonant, stale programming ; unconscious fear, shame and guilt holding you back. The world around you remains a mirror. Reflecting the unconscious and conscious back to you in everything you create.
Let this lifetime be filled with pleasure and driven by ease. You were not designed to do any of this work alone. Yet somehow, by default, we have been left to master our deepest desires in silence. Not anymore.
wHAT YOU DO WITH IT IS UP TO YOU
No matter where you are at in the spectrum of pleasure, this course was masterfully created to support you in amplifying your inherent skills. We are going to deep dive and uncover your bodies erotic intelligence, so that you can get off on every single part of this beautiful life you’ve been given.
There’s no more time to waste playing games that no longer serve you. If you are ready to face yourself head on with utmost turn on, love, excitement, YUM, and reverence for what you find, this class is for you.
Together, we will take on the darkest and lightest parts of you. You will walk away with the skills that are necessary to alchemize your darkness and shine brightly, no matter the depths.
This class is about equipping you with everything that you need for a lifetime of skills supporting yourself, continuing your evolution, and breaking free from the patterns that are holding you back. YOU ARE MEANT TO SHIIIIINE. (and you know it)
Discover Greater
Pleasure
Power
Play
Peace
Alchemy
Advocacy
Integrity
Resource
Connection
Tools
Let’s start getting to the root of those core blocks, leaks, and fears.
Let’s play with sisterhood and feminine connections. Investigate how you relate with the feminine in real time AND expand your capacity to receive.
Let’s map how the erotic flows through your body and mind, all while building a playful yet powerful set of skills to center yourself and unleash the version of you that’s been there all along.
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Consider This is your 9 week catalyst
You are the you that has been waiting for
YOU
Relationship
Roots
Growth
Intimacy
Opening
Possibility
Faith
The Total Package
(9) Live 120m Group Calls
(4)90 - 180m Somatic Studios
Private Telegram Group Chat
Custom Wisdom Workbook
Endless Tools to
Support Yourself for a Lifetime
Week 1, 2, 3
Welcome & Introductions
Paving the way, setting our foundation, creating coherence and agreement. Anchoring in your why.
Belonging
Explore your roots, fears, recognize your edges, hold boundaries, build capacity for discomfort and taking risks. Begin breaking down old scarcity programming, create space for bringing in the plenty. Anchoring in an unmoving trust in yourself.
Pleasure & Your Senses
Experiencing pleasure through sensory awareness
Exploring your erotic aliveness, sensuality, sexuality, and connecting to what feels good in your body. Building up your pleasure circuits in times of intensity. Exploring and stretching your range of sensation. Learning pleasure as Creator and Alchemistress.
Somatic Studio Week 3: Sensual Movement
Using sensual movement to create heat and generate movement in the body. Play around with a range of feelings from sexy & sultry, to uncomfortable & awkward, to fluid & whole.
Week 4, 5, 6
Power
Releasing patterns of overthinking, grasping, and over attachment to outcome, unconsciously giving away your power, shrinking, and turning away.
Reclaiming power from your shadow & anchoring in the power of your attention.
Understanding Victim Mindset - stepping fully into Creator Mindset. Letting go of past narratives that no longer serve you, and building trust in your own actions and behaviors.
Q + A + Digestion
Space to breathe, digest, pause, check in, & connect with yourself.
Ask any questions, discuss any troubles, space to receive help.
Heart Open, No Fear
Learning new methods to be with big and small experiences. Grief, trauma, rage, agony, fear, danger, threat, apathy, etc. Equipping yourself with tools to speak from personal responsibility and share your experience vulnerably, without blame.
Somatic Studio Week 6: Emotional Release
Process, digest, and release past emotional experiences from this lifetime or have been passed down through your lineage. Creating an intentional, regulated space to safely let go of anything big you may carrying.
Week 7, 8, 9
The Essence of Truth
Looking at unspoken truths, inspecting dissonance and the cost, investigating the parts of yourself you have left behind, releasing resentment & unexpressed expectation, taking care of your truth and trusting it to guide you to deeper relationship. (with yourself & with others)
Surrender & Faith
Connecting your body with spirit & it’s unconditional support. Discussing boundaries. Devotion as the greatest tool for self care. Committing to being your greatest caretaker.
Goodbyes & Integration
Learning the importance of goodbyes & endings. Exploring the topic of integration and receive and incredible amount of tools on how to do this pleasurably. Anchor down the felt experience of center - coming home to your body. The importance of gratitude and pouring back out.
Somatic Studio Week 7: Pleasure Exploration | Week 8: Special Closing Ceremony
Wk 7 Self pleasure call, exploring yourself, your relationship with pleasure, and your body. Wk 8 A special 3 hour studio connecting to the divine, initiating the Caretaker of Belonging, and creating your contract with Spirit.
A Peak inside the Toolbox
Rooting the Grounding Cord
Sensual Alchemy
Defining your Edges
Self Pleasure Practice
Anchoring your Why
Holding Sensation
Build your Pleasure Box
Somatic Trauma Release Practices
Hone in your Resonant Frequency of Sovereignty
Contracts with Spirit
The Art of Receiving
Come Down with Pleasure
Emotional and Sensational Advocacy
Crafting Integrity and Personal Responsibility
Weekly Calls on Thursday at
8 PM ET // 7 PM CT // 5 PM PT
Somatic Studios on Sundays at
8 PM ET // 7 PM CT // 5 PM PT
Added Support *
Explore the Inner Sanctuary
3 (90 Minute) 1:1 Studio Sessions with Clarity
Selections from any studio offerings:
Somatic Body Work Studio
Personal Coaching Studio
Erotic Intelligence Embodiment Studio
Only 3 Spots available
THE Inner Sanctuary
aDD-on is For you if…
You know you are ready to invest in personalized 1:1 support
You are ready to go even deeper in our time together exploring what your body specifically is holding
You are ready to work with in real time to learn, feel, & understand the programs you are running
You are ready release the programs, behaviors, mindsets that no longer serve you through in person 1:1 work
Are ready to explore trauma, repressed emotions, trapped memories, and passed down narratives that are slowing your system
About
Clarity Vincenza
Clarity Vincenza is an educator, advocate, somatic body worker, devoted coach, and tantric dominatrix with over eight years of dedicated study and practice. She has deepened her practice beyond traditional education in her extensive studies focused in erotic intelligence, inquiry coaching, kink studies, trauma release, body liberation, and intimacy and polarity dynamics.
She graduated from college with a background in research and psychology of neuroscience with a mission to take on something completely different from what the mental health industry has seen before.
She is the creator of Vincenza.Studios, a leading edge studio committed to liberating and amplifying the beauty within every lived moment. This studio seeks to honor the full spectrum of human experience by fostering true acceptance for both the pleasure and pain of life.
Her journey has been a profound exploration of herself, humanity, and the enormity of what we can experience in one lifetime.
She is here to inspire deep and authentic fulfillment of your need for nourishment so that you can live this life fully.
Clarity is an alchemist of pain and pleasure; bringing transformation to women’s lives and reminding them that anything is possible.
Syndey
Bell
Entrepreneur & Amateur Shapeshifter
Before Belonging I was in a place of rigidity, perfectionism, and constantly performing while also feeling stuck, holding onto so much shame internally.
The biggest reason I invested was MYSELF. This truly is an investment - in YOU. Fuck yeah it was scary. Not because of fear, but because saying YES was an embodiment of my devotion to Self. It was evidence that I believe I'm worth it. And that can feel scary when you've spent a lot of time not feeling worth it. The decision was an act in alignment with the woman I wanted to meet on the other side.
Throat chakra week pushed me the most which is why I enjoyed it so much. Although uncomfortable in the moment, Clarity held us all so beautifully. It was this week that I vulnerably held my heart in my palm, my voice shook while I spoke my truth, and the world didn't end. In fact, I was met DEEPLY with support and warmth from my fellow sisters.
Where I am now is present. That's what reclamation feels like to me. Presence. Honoring what is. Learning the language of my body. Holding all the joy. All the pain. With love. With rage. With grief. More unfurling, less bracing for impact.
Living with these somatic and embodiment tools has changed the way I move through the world. My life feels rich and ritualistic. I talk to my God. I commune with my desires. I am more playful in pushing my edges like shapeshifting. I have so much trust in surrender now. Because through Belonging I learned that I'm always resourced. There is no lack. There is nothing to perfect or perform. There's change, and co-creation, and community. I cannot fuck this up (:
I appreciated Clarity's perceptiveness + fluidity and the way this rippled out into every detail. From music choice, to embodiment practices, she effortlessly provides a curated authentic experience just by being who she is.
If you’re considering taking this course I would say If you are even partially a yes, this is worth examining. You don't feel this for no reason. You feel it because there is life force energy inside of you!!!!! This life force energy is your birthright, babe!!
S.B.
Cannabis Educator, Sales Account Manager
Before Belonging, I was deep in grief after unexpectedly losing my best friend. I felt lost in so many ways, yet strangely clear in others. I constantly showed up for others before myself, running myself into the ground. I struggled to finish things, and regularly left tasks incomplete. I'd get stuck in intense freeze states, talk the talk, but often felt like I wasn't walking the walk.
I had done some shadow work on my own, but only to the extent that felt 'safe.' I didn't yet realize how much safety—or the lack of it—had really driven my entire life. Deep, constant fear rooted in childhood trauma had shaped how I moved through the world, even though outwardly any of my friends or family would tell you I had it all together and was super strong.
Now? I feel truly connected to my gut. I'm making tough, uncomfortable decisions that align with my intuition and deepest needs. Living with these tools has been one of the most empowering experiences. I feel like I look at the world differently, and can dissect situations clearly for what they are, not for what I am being told they are. I have gained this inner trust and self confidence I didn't know was possible.
I now love myself in ways I never have before. I look in the mirror now and feel this warm, in-love feeling toward myself. As someone who grew up picking apart her body, face, and especially her mind, that feeling is a true blessing. My frequency is higher, my connection to myself is stronger and deeper, and I feel more aligned in my soul, mind, and body than I ever have in this lifetime.
Clarity was direct and no bullshit. She showed up fully 100% every class, and was empathetic but also gave tough love when it was needed. Honors boundaries but also helps you push past the comfort that you have placed around yourself and your story.
If you’re considering taking this course I would say DO IT! I have joined other containers and have been like was this worth it? There is ZERO doubt that this is worth it. This container has changed my life in SO many ways and I feel so fortunate to have gotten this amazing experience.
Susannah
Heist
Social Worker, Mental Health Court Coordinator
I was in an un-happy marriage, not having my own physical location. In a job I didn't love. Now- I am single, in a happy job, feeling the full expression of love and joy everyday.
The biggest take away from Belonging was learning to allow myself to feel what I need to be and be present in those feeling. I have struggled a long time to allow myself to take a moment when I need it but after Belonging, I give myself whatever time, I'm no longer ashamed of my feelings and I don't dismiss those feelings when I feel them. I fully believe that putting my attention inward and trying to live my authentic self has led me to have the job I want, the relationships I want, and feel so much joy.
Clarity was a great facilitator, she called me in (not out) when I wasn't showing up 100%. Clarity was attentive to every person in the call and was meeting my individual needs as well as every other woman in the group.
If you’re considering taking this course I would say YES! This is a gift to yourself, this is a gift to the highest version of yourself, a gift to the future you, and a gift to future generations of you. This is the best version of self-care you can take.
Michelle
burke
Executive Leader
I was struggling with embracing my pleasure in a way that felt fully expressive. I wanted to set down the control and judgment of repression that I had been carrying for decades. With this program, I truly achieved that! Now, I am living fully -- openly in my pleasure, with myself and those that I'm building intimacy.
Clarity is all about getting real. She will say the hard things that need to be said so the messages 'sink in.' She helps me and the group see where we/I might be lying to myself.
If you’re considering taking this course I would say stop considering and say YES! If your spirit is yearning for change, this will most certainly help you on that path!
Ellen
Hansen
Photographer, Writer, Light Artist
Before Belonging I was experiencing a lot of rumination without the awareness it was happening, and general anxiety even if nothing was really wrong. Now I am making brave choices from a sense of peace and knowing and trusting myself more than I had before.
Even though it was a scary choice I invested in Belonging because the one session I already had with Clarity was so impactful, I knew there was more for me that would continue to help me grow in the way that I needed to.
My favorite part of Belonging was that it created context for other energy work and somatic practices I had studied. It was like a foundational course in How To Be In A Body… and I honestly really needed that level of simplicity and cohesion to unify what I already knew with the missing pieces that were brought in.
So far I have stepped fully into my artist, validating all of the parts of me that were alive. I understand what it means to have a channel and I am much less afraid of myself. I choose to share work that is vulnerable and because of that I've called in people in my life who actually see me, and career opportunities that see my potential.
Clarity cares so deeply about everyone she works with. The energy of the container she sets for the work she does is strong and powerful. She is connected to her truth. She is not messing around! She truly puts attention on everyone even in a group setting.
If you’re considering taking this course I would say trust yourself even when you don't know why or what is on the other side.
S.A.B
Energy Companion
I was pretty convinced I was doing it all wrong before I started. I had a lot of judgements on what pleasure was and lacked clarity and boundaries. Belonging showed me several areas in life where I was leaking energy and how stuck I was in the drama triangle in my relationships and gave me tools to get myself to sovereignty.
I have a new sense of self-containment, self-love, and self-resourcing. I have started to be able to name my needs and walk away from relationships that are no longer serving me while keeping my heart open.
There was a moment in the heart week where I had this huge realization that if I protected my heart by being more discerning and intentional about my interactions with people I love that my heart could heal and wouldn't need to close.
Clarity wasn't afraid to call us on our sh*t and didn't let us slide on our commitments to our self.
If you’re considering taking this course I would say take this class if you want to clean up your energetic and physical space and start creating and keeping your agreements with yourself that will lead to deeper self-love and self-worth. Clarity will command your commitment to yourself.
I’m ready to step into my full belonging
soften.
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