A 9 week Immersive Deep Dive to fall deeply in love with your own belonging. Explore your body, your senses, and the truest expression of you.
map your body from root to crown
Get to the root of your blocks, leaks, and fears that are holding you back and keeping you hidden.
Play with sisterhood and feminine connections. Investigate how you relate with the feminine and expand your capacity to see yourself in others.
Map your body, map your mind, and build a playful yet powerful toolbox of skills to center yourself, attract the life you are worthy of creating, and take the power back into your hands.
You’ve been working haard mama - to keep it all together, to stay open to possibility, to move from your power. You’ve been doing a really good job. Yet, somehow it still doesn’t feel like enough. The truth is, what you want will always come - with practice, by following your yes, and setting yourself up with the support you need to get there. But, there is more to the story. Your wholeness doesn’t come from what you are accomplishing, it comes from the person you are BEING every step of the way. It’s time to make time for the erotic. To let this lifetime filled with pleasure and driven with ease. You are not designed to do any of this alone. Yet somehow, we have been left to master our deepest desires in silence. Not anymore.
wHAT YOU DO WITH IT IS UP TO YOU
No matter where you are at in the spectrum of pleasure, this course was designed to support you in amplifying your inherent skills. Together, we are going to uncover your bodies erotic intelligence, so that you can get off on every single part of this beautiful life you’ve been given.
There’s no more time to waste playing games that no longer serve you. If you are ready to face yourself head on with utmost turn on, love, excitement, YUM, and reverence for what you find, this class is for you.
Together, we will take on the darkest and lightest parts of you. You will walk away with the skills that are necessary to alchemize your darkness and shine brightly, no matter the depths.
This class is about equipping you with everything that you need for a lifetime of skills supporting yourself, continuing your evolution, and breaking free from the patterns that are holding you back. YOU ARE MEANT TO SHIIIIINE. (and you know it)
Discover Greater
Pleasure
Power
Play
Alchemy
Advocacy
Integrity
Resource
Connection
Tools for Internal Experience Mapping
Consider This is your 9 week catalyst to last a lifetime
You are the you that has been waiting for
YOU
Roots
Growth
Relationship
Intimacy
Opening
Responsibility
Possibility
The Total Package
(9) Live 120m Group Calls
(4)90 - 180m Somatic Studios
Endless Tools to
Support Yourself for a Lifetime
Private Facebook Group Support
Custom Wisdom Workbook
Bonus discount for
Single Studio Session
Week 1, 2, 3
Welcome & Introductions
Paving the way, setting our foundation, creating coherence and agreement. Anchoring in your why.
Belonging
Explore your roots, fears, recognizing your edges, trust yourself to get uncomfortable. Taking risks, building comfort, breaking down scarcity, bringing in the plenty. Anchoring in an unmoving trust in yourself.
Pleasure & Your Senses
Experiencing pleasure through sensory awareness
Exploring your sensuality, sexuality, and connecting to what feels good in your body. Building your pleasure circuits in times of intensisty. Exploring the bounties of pleasure. Learning pleasure as Creator and Alchemistress
Somatic Studio Week 3: Sensual Movement
Using sensual movement to create heat and generate movement in the body. Play around with a range of feelings from sexy & sultry, to silly & awkward, to fluid & whole.
Week 4, 5, 6
Power
Releasing patterns of overthinking, grasping, and over attachment to outcome, unconsciously giving away your power, shrinking, and turning away.
Reclaiming power from your shadow & anchoring in the power of your attention.
Understanding Victim Mindset - stepping fully into Creator Mindset. Letting go of past narratives that no longer serve you, and building trust in your own actions and behaviors.
Q + A + Digestion
Space to breathe, digest, pause, check in, & connect with yourself.
Ask any questions, discuss any troubles, space to receive help.
Heart Open, No Fear
Learning new methods to be with big and small experiences. Grief, trauma, rage, agony, fear, danger, threat, apathy, etc. Equipping yourself with tools to speak from personal responsibility and share your experience vulnerably, without blame.
Somatic Studio Week 6: Emotional Release
Process, digest, and release past emotional experiences from this lifetime or have been passed down through your lineage. Creating an intentional, regulated space to safely let go of anything big you may carrying.
Week 7, 8, 9
The Essence of Truth
Looking at unspoken truths, inspecting dissonance and the cost, investigating the parts of yourself you have left behind, releasing resentment & unexpressed expectation, taking care of your truth and trusting it to guide you to deeper relationship. (with yourself & with others)
Surrender & Faith
Connecting your body with spirit & it’s unconditional support. Discussing boundaries. Devotion as the greatest tool for self care. Committing to being your greatest caretaker.
Goodbyes & Integration
Learning the importance of goodbyes & endings. Exploring the topic of integration and receive and incredible amount of tools on how to do this pleasurably. Anchor down the felt experience of center - coming home to your body. The importance of gratitude and pouring back out.
Somatic Studio Week 7: Pleasure Exploration | Week 8: Special Closing Ceremony
Wk 7 Self pleasure call, exploring yourself, your relationship with pleasure, and your body. Wk 8 A special 3 hour studio connecting to the divine, initiating the Caretaker of Belonging, and creating your contract with Spirit.
Weekly Calls on Sunday at
8 PM ET // 7 PM CT // 5 PM PT
Somatic Studios on Wednesdays at
8 PM ET // 7 PM CT // 5 PM PT
You will get out of it what you put into it - if you show up and put into practice what is being taught, you will make a difference in your life.
The shifts that happen during and after this course will have the capacity to change you for a lifetime. They will shock you, surprise you, and delight you, if you let them.
You will always have the freedom of your own experience.
You will leave with a greater capacity and trust in yourself if you choose and equip yourself with the resource to
take action.
You will always be met with humility, respect, kindness, and grace.
Your experience will be one of a kind.
I recognize I am a divinely unique individual and so are you.
You will have a stable ground to bring to life that which you are most ready to create for YOU.
This time will serve as a reflection of true possibility.
There will be Light in every moment we share.
You will be held, loved, and cared for in every moment.
Added Support *
Explore the Inner Sanctuary
3 (90 Minute) 1:1 Studio Sessions with Clarity
Selections from any studio offerings:
Somatic Body Work Studio
Personal Coaching Studio
Somatic Embodiment Studio
Only 3 Spots available
THE Inner Sanctuary
aDD-on is For you if…
You know you are ready to invest in personalized 1:1 support
You are ready to go even deeper in our time together exploring what your body specifically is holding
You are ready to work with in real time to learn, feel, & understand the programs you are running
You are ready release the programs, behaviors, mindsets that no longer serve you through in person or virtual 1:1 work
Are ready to explore trauma, repressed emotions, trapped memories, and passed down narratives that are slowing your system
About
Clarity Vincenza
Clarity Vincenza is an educator, somatic body worker, devoted coach, and tantric dominatrix with over six years of dedicated study and practice. She has deepened her practice over the years beyond traditional education in her extensive studies focused in inquiry coaching, tantra, somatic trauma release, de-armoring, kink studies (BDSM), body liberation, and intimacy and polarity dynamics.
She graduated from college in 2022 with a background in research and psychology of neuroscience with a mission to take on something completely different from what the mental health industry has seen before.
She is the creator of Vincenza.Studios, a leading edge company committed to liberating and amplifying the beauty within every lived moment. This studio seeks to honor the full spectrum of human experience by fostering true acceptance for both the pleasure and pain of life.
Her journey has been a profound exploration of herself, humanity, and the enormity of what we can experience in one lifetime.
She is here to inspire deep and authentic fulfillment of your need for nourishment so that you can live this life fully.
Clarity is an alchemist of pain and pleasure; bringing transformation to women’s lives and reminding them that anything is possible.
Syndey
Bell
Entrepreneur & Amateur Shapeshifter
Before Belonging I was in a place of rigidity, perfectionism, and constantly performing while also feeling stuck, holding onto so much shame internally.
The biggest reason I invested was MYSELF. This truly is an investment - in YOU. Fuck yeah it was scary. Not because of fear, but because saying YES was an embodiment of my devotion to Self. It was evidence that I believe I'm worth it. And that can feel scary when you've spent a lot of time not feeling worth it. The decision was an act in alignment with the woman I wanted to meet on the other side.
Throat chakra week pushed me the most which is why I enjoyed it so much. Although uncomfortable in the moment, Clarity held us all so beautifully. It was this week that I vulnerably held my heart in my palm, my voice shook while I spoke my truth, and the world didn't end. In fact, I was met DEEPLY with support and warmth from my fellow sisters.
Where I am now is present. That's what reclamation feels like to me. Presence. Honoring what is. Learning the language of my body. Holding all the joy. All the pain. With love. With rage. With grief. More unfurling, less bracing for impact.
Living with these somatic and embodiment tools has changed the way I move through the world. My life feels rich and ritualistic. I talk to my God. I commune with my desires. I am more playful in pushing my edges like shapeshifting. I have so much trust in surrender now. Because through Belonging I learned that I'm always resourced. There is no lack. There is nothing to perfect or perform. There's change, and co-creation, and community. I cannot fuck this up (:
I appreciated Clarity's perceptiveness + fluidity and the way this rippled out into every detail. From music choice, to embodiment practices, she effortlessly provides a curated authentic experience just by being who she is.
If you’re considering taking this course I would say If you are even partially a yes, this is worth examining. You don't feel this for no reason. You feel it because there is life force energy inside of you!!!!! This life force energy is your birthright, babe!!
S.B.
Cannabis Educator, Sales Account Manager
Before Belonging, I was deep in grief after unexpectedly losing my best friend. I felt lost in so many ways, yet strangely clear in others. I constantly showed up for others before myself, running myself into the ground. I struggled to finish things, and regularly left tasks incomplete. I'd get stuck in intense freeze states, talk the talk, but often felt like I wasn't walking the walk.
I had done some shadow work on my own, but only to the extent that felt 'safe.' I didn't yet realize how much safety—or the lack of it—had really driven my entire life. Deep, constant fear rooted in childhood trauma had shaped how I moved through the world, even though outwardly any of my friends or family would tell you I had it all together and was super strong.
Now? I feel truly connected to my gut. I'm making tough, uncomfortable decisions that align with my intuition and deepest needs. Living with these tools has been one of the most empowering experiences. I feel like I look at the world differently, and can dissect situations clearly for what they are, not for what I am being told they are. I have gained this inner trust and self confidence I didn't know was possible.
I now love myself in ways I never have before. I look in the mirror now and feel this warm, in-love feeling toward myself. As someone who grew up picking apart her body, face, and especially her mind, that feeling is a true blessing. My frequency is higher, my connection to myself is stronger and deeper, and I feel more aligned in my soul, mind, and body than I ever have in this lifetime.
Clarity was direct and no bullshit. She showed up fully 100% every class, and was empathetic but also gave tough love when it was needed. Honors boundaries but also helps you push past the comfort that you have placed around yourself and your story.
If you’re considering taking this course I would say DO IT! I have joined other containers and have been like was this worth it? There is ZERO doubt that this is worth it. This container has changed my life in SO many ways and I feel so fortunate to have gotten this amazing experience.
Susannah
Heist
Social Worker, Mental Health Court Coordinator
I was in an un-happy marriage, not having my own physical location. In a job I didn't love. Now- I am single, in a happy job, feeling the full expression of love and joy everyday.
The biggest take away from Belonging was learning to allow myself to feel what I need to be and be present in those feeling. I have struggled a long time to allow myself to take a moment when I need it but after Belonging, I give myself whatever time, I'm no longer ashamed of my feelings and I don't dismiss those feelings when I feel them. I fully believe that putting my attention inward and trying to live my authentic self has led me to have the job I want, the relationships I want, and feel so much joy.
Clarity was a great facilitator, she called me in (not out) when I wasn't showing up 100%. Clarity was attentive to every person in the call and was meeting my individual needs as well as every other woman in the group.
If you’re considering taking this course I would say YES! This is a gift to yourself, this is a gift to the highest version of yourself, a gift to the future you, and a gift to future generations of you. This is the best version of self-care you can take.
Michelle
burke
Executive Leader
I was struggling with embracing my pleasure in a way that felt fully expressive. I wanted to set down the control and judgment of repression that I had been carrying for decades. With this program, I truly achieved that! Now, I am living fully -- openly in my pleasure, with myself and those that I'm building intimacy.
Clarity is all about getting real. She will say the hard things that need to be said so the messages 'sink in.' She helps me and the group see where we/I might be lying to myself.
If you’re considering taking this course I would say stop considering and say YES! If your spirit is yearning for change, this will most certainly help you on that path!
Ellen
Hansen
Photographer, Writer, Light Artist
Before Belonging I was experiencing a lot of rumination without the awareness it was happening, and general anxiety even if nothing was really wrong. Now I am making brave choices from a sense of peace and knowing and trusting myself more than I had before.
Even though it was a scary choice I invested in Belonging because the one session I already had with Clarity was so impactful, I knew there was more for me that would continue to help me grow in the way that I needed to.
My favorite part of Belonging was that it created context for other energy work and somatic practices I had studied. It was like a foundational course in How To Be In A Body… and I honestly really needed that level of simplicity and cohesion to unify what I already knew with the missing pieces that were brought in.
So far I have stepped fully into my artist, validating all of the parts of me that were alive. I understand what it means to have a channel and I am much less afraid of myself. I choose to share work that is vulnerable and because of that I've called in people in my life who actually see me, and career opportunities that see my potential.
Clarity cares so deeply about everyone she works with. The energy of the container she sets for the work she does is strong and powerful. She is connected to her truth. She is not messing around! She truly puts attention on everyone even in a group setting.
If you’re considering taking this course I would say trust yourself even when you don't know why or what is on the other side.
S.A.B
Energy Companion
I was pretty convinced I was doing it all wrong before I started. I had a lot of judgements on what pleasure was and lacked clarity and boundaries. Belonging showed me several areas in life where I was leaking energy and how stuck I was in the drama triangle in my relationships and gave me tools to get myself to sovereignty.
I have a new sense of self-containment, self-love, and self-resourcing. I have started to be able to name my needs and walk away from relationships that are no longer serving me while keeping my heart open.
There was a moment in the heart week where I had this huge realization that if I protected my heart by being more discerning and intentional about my interactions with people I love that my heart could heal and wouldn't need to close.
Clarity wasn't afraid to call us on our sh*t and didn't let us slide on our commitments to our self.
If you’re considering taking this course I would say take this class if you want to clean up your energetic and physical space and start creating and keeping your agreements with yourself that will lead to deeper self-love and self-worth. Clarity will command your commitment to yourself.
Belonging is mine
soften.
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